Blaming others for one’s own mistakes or shortcomings is a behavior commonly associated with several personality traits and disorders, but it is particularly prominent in individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD).
Here’s how these personality types tend to display a tendency to blame others…
- Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) – People with NPD often have an inflated sense of self-importance and a need for constant admiration. When faced with failures, criticism, or negative outcomes, they may be unwilling to accept responsibility for their actions and may instead shift blame onto others. Narcissists may engage in blame-shifting or denial of their own mistakes, portraying themselves as faultless and superior.
- Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD) – Individuals with ASPD may display manipulative and deceitful behaviors. They often have little regard for the rights and feelings of others and may engage in exploitative behaviors. When caught engaging in harmful actions or criminal behavior, they may attempt to blame others or rationalize their actions to avoid responsibility or legal consequences.
Blaming others is not exclusive to these personality disorders, and individuals without a formal diagnosis of a personality disorder can also exhibit this behavior, especially in moments of defensiveness or when avoiding accountability for their actions.
Blaming others can also be a defense mechanism used by individuals to protect their self-esteem or to cope with feelings of guilt or shame. In many cases, therapy or counseling can be beneficial for individuals who habitually blame others, as it can help them explore the underlying reasons for this behavior and develop more constructive ways of handling responsibility and conflict.
