Controlling behavior can manifest in individuals with various personality disorders, not all individuals with a particular personality disorder will exhibit controlling tendencies. There are some personality disorders in which controlling behavior may be more commonly observed or emphasized as part of the disorder’s characteristics.

Two personality disorders that may involve controlling traits are…

1. Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD) – OCPD is characterized by a pervasive preoccupation with orderliness, perfectionism, control, and rules. Individuals with OCPD often have a strong desire for control over their environment, work, and relationships. They may be excessively focused on rules, schedules, and precision, which can lead to controlling behaviors aimed at ensuring that everything adheres to their strict standards and expectations. It’s important to distinguish OCPD from Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), as they are different disorders.
2. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) – Individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder often have an exaggerated sense of self-importance, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. While their primary focus is on themselves, they may exhibit controlling behaviors in their interactions with others to maintain their perceived superiority and entitlement. They may seek to dominate conversations, manipulate situations to their advantage, and expect others to comply with their wishes.

Emphasize that controlling behavior is not exclusive to these personality disorders, and it can be observed in individuals with other personality disorders or even in individuals without a diagnosed personality disorder. Individuals with personality disorders vary widely in their behaviors and characteristics, and not all individuals with OCPD or NPD will display controlling tendencies.

A formal diagnosis and assessment by a mental health professional are necessary to determine the presence of a personality disorder or other mental health condition. If you or someone you know is experiencing controlling behavior or other concerning patterns of behavior, it is advisable to seek help from a qualified mental health professional who can provide a proper evaluation and recommend appropriate treatment or interventions.