Obsessive Love Disorder (OLD), also known as Obsessive Love, is not an officially recognized psychiatric disorder in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), which is widely used by mental health professionals to diagnose and classify mental health conditions. The term is sometimes used colloquially to describe a pattern of behavior characterized by an intense, overwhelming, and unhealthy fixation on a romantic partner or someone they are infatuated with.

Common features or signs associated with what some people refer to as “obsessive love” may include…

1. Constant thinking about the person – The individual may constantly think about their romantic interest, daydreaming about them or obsessively checking their social media profiles.
2. Excessive jealousy – Individuals with this pattern of behavior may become excessively jealous and possessive, often interpreting innocent interactions as signs of betrayal or infidelity.
3. Invasiveness – They may engage in invasive behaviors such as monitoring their partner’s phone, tracking their whereabouts without their consent, or even stalking.
4. Isolation – Some people with obsessive love tendencies may isolate themselves from friends and family in favor of spending all their time with the object of their affection.
5. Irrational beliefs – They might hold irrational beliefs or engage in magical thinking, believing that their love alone can solve all problems or that they are destined to be together.
6. Emotional instability – Obsessive love can lead to intense mood swings, anxiety, depression, and feelings of despair when the object of their affection is not available or responsive.

While intense infatuation and attachment are normal aspects of romantic relationships, unhealthy obsessions and behaviors can become problematic and potentially harmful to both the person exhibiting them and the target of their affection. Such behaviors can interfere with a person’s overall well-being and may be a sign of an underlying mental health issue.

If you or someone you know is experiencing patterns of obsessive love that are causing distress or negatively impacting daily life, seek professional help from a mental health expert, such as a therapist or counselor, who can provide guidance and support in addressing these issues and promoting healthier relationships.